A lot of
universities start the year with mainly social activities that target getting
to know each other as soon as possible. You’re now in a course with hundreds of
other people, and making new friends doesn’t come all that naturally to some
people. It is advisable to take part in these activities. In fact, most of my
best friends are people I met on my first day, two years ago.
It’s
usually not very hard to notice who has the potential to become your friend,
and who has not. People with similar interests usually find each other really
soon, making friend groups in a matter of days. However, this obviously
requires that you are open an honest towards other people. If you decide to
pretend being someone you are actually not, you are going to get trouble
maintaining friendships sooner or later.
These
activities can vary between meeting up one afternoon in a small pub and a whole
camping trip in a deserted forest. Either way, it’s usually a lot of fun and
really worth the small effort.
Whether
you are a very shy person or the extremely social type of person, making new
friends at the start of the new academic year is a great opportunity, since
everybody is new here and eager to meet new people. You are only new once;
don’t miss out on such an easy chance to make new friends!
But it’s
not only the social aspect of these activities that is very important and
helpful. Usually you can hang out with older students and such, who know
everything about the university and the city, and they had the same experience
of being new as you have now.
It’s
usually a good idea to listen to their advice; you will most likely benefit
from it sooner or later in your academic career.
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